You are supposed to love yourself and love everyone else.
How does that work with dark energy? Unpredictable people?
When people show you how they are, believe them..?
Change seems to be an intrinsic occurrence, it can only really come from within.
You will encounter many people in your life who will offer you all sorts of advice. None of this advice will ever create change unless you want to accept it.
And you don’t have to. This life is all about you and your evolution. When you grow, you allow for others to grow with you. So just focus on yourself and what you want to achieve.
But what if you don’t know where to start? What if your mental state is such a mess that you can barely make it out of bed each day? I’ve been there and it’s going to be okay. All you need to convince yourself of is that you want change regardless of how it will happen. I have made a simple formula for this:
Awareness + the intention to change – will reveal your own path.
Awareness is the key to your evolution.
If you can’t see what needs change in your life, then you will never be able to follow up with appropriate action.
Once you become aware of destructive habits and patterns in your life, you can start changing them. My advice (which you definitely don’t have to follow) will be to start making change in an area where you feel little resistance, an easy change so to say.
Sometimes you don’t need to focus on the end result, just focus on the step ahead. Name one thing (even if it seems insignificant to you now) that you want to change. Start small, start easy. For some people it can be opening the bedroom curtains every morning. For some people it can be the start of an exercise journey. For some people it can be cleaning out their house.
It might seem unimportant to you at first, but you will notice when you have implemented one small change in your life that it makes you feel proud and hungry for more.
It is said that changing a habit will cost you around thirty days to overthrow it. So start by making your bed for thirty days straight. And when you have done that, try and think of another small change you would like to achieve in your daily life.
If you don’t know where to start, ask it out loud. “How can I change? Show me a way”. Your path will reveal itself to you.
The universe has a way of helping you out, especially when you ask for it.
Who knows, maybe in two years’ time you will look back at your life astonished of all the changes you’ve made, proud of the new you that you have become.
“The path reveals itself once you start walking..”
