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The Gap

Leave a Comment | Power | admin | September 26, 2025 | abuse, friendship, manipulation, relationships

The Gap is a personal reflection on abuse, imbalance, and the hidden dynamics that shape unhealthy relationships. In this essay I explore how placing others above myself created space for manipulation — and how recognizing that gap became the key to reclaiming agency, self-worth, and choice.

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Powerabuse, friendship, manipulation, relationships
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Automatic rejection

Leave a Comment | Identity | admin | September 26, 2025 | convictions, reprogramming

In Automatic Rejection I explore how unconscious programming shapes the stories we tell ourselves — and how these stories silently limit our choices. This piece is an invitation to notice where we automatically say no to ourselves, and how awareness creates the space to choose differently.

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Words are spells

Leave a Comment | Identity | admin | September 26, 2025 | listening, mindfulness, responsibility, words

Words linger longer than we think. This piece explores how unconscious language shapes our inner world — and how awareness can transform both how we speak and how we listen.

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Inner circle

Leave a Comment | Power | admin | September 26, 2025 | boundaries, friends

A reflection on boundaries, energy, and conscious connection. This piece explores how redefining your inner circle can restore balance, protect your heart, and deepen the relationships that truly nourish you.

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Bottoms up!

Leave a Comment | Identity | admin | September 3, 2025 | asking for help, bottom, depression

In Bottoms Up – My Point of No Return I reflect on the moment everything collapsed — and clarity finally arrived. This piece explores burnout, self-deception, and the turning point where responsibility replaced victimhood, and a new path became unavoidable.

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